Outline Order of Service Traditional

Music playing at Entry ( organ, or CD/Tape Jesu Joy of Man’s Desiring )

Opening Collect ( to introduce the occasion )

Introductory Sentences

All Sing eg Abide with me or Say a Verse ( to help us to gather, e.g. When I grow too old to dream)

A Reading or Readings ( expressing the beliefs of those assembled regarding life, death and mourning )

The Eulogy or Appreciation for the Life of the Departed

Music or Period of Silence - Time for Reflection

Prayer or Words of Comfort ( e.g. “DRy Your Tears” ), concluding with a verse said all together ( some request The Lords Prayer or “The Best”)

All Sing or Say a Verse ( to strengthen us for the moment of parting, e.g. When tomorrow starts without me or The Garden at Dusk )

Words of Commendation ( presentation of roses )

Words of Committal ( perhaps music played as curtains close, to rest, to reunion with loved ones, to peace )

Closing Words or Blessing

Close - Music played ( giving time for everyone to compose themselves before leaving )

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